"Secure love is within reach -
No matter how long you've struggled"
You are not too old...
You developed an attachment pattern that protected you as a child - but as an adult, it now creates pain, exhaustion, and disconnection.
Here’s the truth: it’s never too late to change.
Do you want to break free of the emotional rollercoaster and the exhausting struggle of dysfunctional relationships? We now know how secure love works, and at any age you can embrace it: connected, loved, safe... and great for your sex life too!
The next step is yours to take... and I'm here to guide you.
What are Attachment Styles?
In this video I outline the 4 different Attachment styles:
❇️ Secure
❇️ Dismissive Avoidant
❇️ Anxious Preoccupied
❇️ Fearful Avoidant
And... give some characteristics and behaviours for each.
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Quickly discover your attachment patterns - in love, connection, and intimacy.
Freebies, Programs, and Coaching...
Immediate Access
Freebies
Free stuff you can immediately sink your teeth into. Checklists, meditations, worksheets and tools designed for your attachment style. Let these be a gateway for your understanding, the first step toward secure connection, sex, & love.
Self-Directed
Online Programs
You can heal your unhealthy attachment (and sex) patterns whenever & wherever you feel most comfortable. Move past the struggle & feelings of being overwhelmed, & step-by-step build deep, healthy, secure relationships. Yours to keep forever..
One-On-One
Coaching
Focused sessions, all about you. Learn about your patterns & how they formed. Develop deep compassion for yourself and with guidance, reprogram your subconscious with new secure patterns to feel free, strong, empowered, worthy, that you matter, safe, & enough..
check out my podcast
All About Attachment Over 40
Join Verity on her podcast (also featuring weekly episodes of All About Attachment & Sex)... where she unpacks love, sex, and connection - one real conversation at a time
Attachment advice for young people simply doesn't fit the over 40s who also juggle children, step-children, co-parents, aging parents, long-term dysfunctional relationships... and so much more! This podcast speaks directly to you, the over 40, so you can heal.
Do you feel disconnected, or your partner not want sex? Are they addicted to porn? Do you feel like a burden asking for what you want in the bedroom, or think, 'If they loved me, they'd know!'. What about non-monogamy, swinging, kink? Your attachment style impacts your desires, boundaries, and how you express yourself sexually. Tune in to feel safe, secure, empowered, & fulfilled with your own sexuality.
Recent Happy Clients...
Verity is nothing short of amazing!!! Her compassionate approach truly has helped me move forward and heal from past wounds. Most importantly, she's introducing me to a healthier version of myself.
Christi, California
I highly recommend connecting with Verity. She holds a safe space to be authentically you. I felt super safe and truly seen. She has a way of guiding you to the inner most parts of yourself so you can truly transform and break patterns. Beyond grateful for the healing & new beginnings!! Thank you .
Constance, Florida
This coaching has changed how I feel about myself, how I relate with others and how I look out for myself. Thank you Verity, I feel empowered and brave enough to date again.
Sue, Queensland
Verity Robins
Verity is a Sexologist and Attachment Therapy Relationship Coach from Melbourne, Australia, helping people over 40 move past the stress, struggle, frustration, and overwhelming feelings of dysfunctional relationships, to embrace and adopt patterns of secure attachment, and freeing, joyous sex.
After decades of dysfunctional relationships herself (ah the pain!), she realised the over 40s were lacking relatable guidance toward secure, safe relationships in the field of attachment therapy.
With 30 years of coaching experience, an NLP and professional speaking trainer, international award winning speaker, degree in Sexology and... in her 50s herself - Verity is uniquely qualified to help guide you to safe and secure love (potentially with a healthy helping of hot sex on the side too!).
Verity hosts the podcast: All About Attachment Over 40
She also adds the filter of attachment over all things sex, and addresses how we communicate, express, and struggle sexually. Tune in to have your attachment and sex questions answered. Explore the path to freeing, expressive sex, that feels safe, with her special weekly podcast episodes focused on sex:
All About Attachment & SEX
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